Many people say that self-help is about finding the empowerment to go out and become a different person. To an extent, this psychological mindset is a true model; by becoming a better person you raise your self-esteem by preset goals that you plan and achieve. This behavior is reinforced by positive results and consequently sets up a person to succeed in more areas, given that they have enough talent and drive to succeed. Find out more in this book called 7 habits of highly effective people written by Stephen Covey
A great self help tip that can help you change your life is to buy a pet. Getting a cat or a dog can do wonders for you stress levels. The simple act of petting a dog can greatly reduce your stress. Having a pet is beneficial for you and for them.
When trying to stay positive through your self help process, take the time to look at your surroundings and admire everything that is great about life. For example, the sun provides the entire world (and more) with energy, you should take simple things like this to provide you with positive reinforcement.
You need to be realistic with your to-do lists. If you have things on there that you cannot do in a day, then that will hinder the rest of your progression and probably make you feel disappointed in yourself. Be realistic and add things that you know you can achieve in a day. Keep it simple to get things done.
Self-help is truly goal based. By breaking up the ultimate goal into little portions or pieces, people are able to achieve minor goals in their life and work up to the overall change. Turning into a self-made millionaire isn’t an overnight process, but the key to starting is to start. Like the pyramids, every great work takes effort, and in this case, change is best done one brick at a time.